How Manifestation Works (The Good, The Bad and the Ugly)
This post was inspired by this Abraham Hicks video. (Scroll down to see it for yourself)
After reading this post you should have a clearer understanding of:
Often, you'll receive an impulse..........this gives us an opportunity to speak about the evolution of every desire.
You have put, by living your life, everything into your vortex.
That refers to, as your living your life and realizing all the things you don't want, you're Inner Being is taking all your "I don't want"s and deducing and creating what you DO want. Talking solely about what you DON'T want slows this process down, as opposed to, talking about what you DO want instantly creates it. That's how things get put into your vortex.
That's how you "make requests" that you don't even realize you're making. Your vortex is where all those things exist. Everything you've ever "asked for" is in your vortex.
We SPEAK our existence into reality. Technically, we FEEL our existence into reality. Our feelings are created by our thoughts. What we think about influences our feelings, doesn't it? We speak whatever we're thinking about, right? As we speak, our focus is on the subject we are focused on.
When you're talking about something that excites you, as you continue to talk, you start to feel more excited. Your speech speeds up. You feel more energetic as you continue to talk about it. On the other hand, when you talk in a state of depression, you're more likely to speak softly, without confidence and maybe even more slowly.
When you talk about something that scares you, how do you talk about it? Are you quiet and child-like, still needing soothing, as a child needs reassurance that everything is going to be ok? Or do you talk about it as something exciting to conquer? A challenge to face? An opportunity to grow?
The first is still telling the story from the place of a victim. The Inner Child has some healing yet to do in regards to the event that scares you. That child still feels the fear as fear. Whether it manifests in the form of anxiety or depression can tell which perspective you choose to think about.
Depression - You are living in your past, reliving it in your mind over and over again, taking yourself back to the feelings you felt at the time. My guess is you keep reliving it IN YOUR HEAD. You don't talk about it with anyone, whether it's out of guilt or shame, you have your reasons. We all do that. Talking about these topics are painful for whatever reasons you have. This requires stepping outside your comfort zone. That's not easy when you're already feeling scared. You may not even know why you're scared.
Anxiety - You are living in the future. This is a higher vibration than depression because you're attempting to move past it. At least you're not just reliving it over and over again. But you're making predictions about your future based on the beliefs established during that event.
(An example would be someone who was abused as a child. During the course of the abuse, they learned to believe that they weren't strong enough to overcome the abuse, to do anything about it or even that they deserve the torment that befell them. Maybe they were protecting siblings or someone else from enduring a similar fate. There are beliefs that were developed during that time that you have not yet healed from.)
In the case of anxiety, you may be talking about the event, but are you being completely honest with yourself or whoever you're talking to about the feelings associated with the event? When you talk about what happened, do you acknowledge that you were scared at the time? That might make you appear weak. Are you judging yourself based on your beliefs? You don't want to reveal that you were feeling protective over your siblings because they did end up getting hurt, despite your best efforts to protect them, therefore you feel like a failure in that regard.
The healing is always in the story, but be mindful of how you tell your story. You don't want to replay or relive the story, but set an intention to heal. (Click here to read Own Your Power)
When I work with someone, the beginning of the process is always the same. How we proceed depends on what's going on with them:
When it gets to a point that you don't know what to do with that anger, do you feel defeated that you can't do anything about it? Whether it's right now or at all......do you hesitate because you don't want to fall back into the place of depression?
Revenge might be looking pretty sweet right about now. When you keep yourself here though, your "assailant" is still holding the power behind that moment. To take that power back, we have to talk about the emotions.
The emotions are what propels us forward or holds us back. (Click here to read Own Your Power)
If you're not sure what events happened that are holding you back, first consider what the topic is that you stay away from over any other? The stories you steer away from are the ones that you feel like they take away from who you're trying to be.
So who do you tell your story to? or not? How do you know if this is the right person to be talking to?
A lot of people have good intentions. Most people want to help. Some may not be ready to help you though. Here's how you can tell.
Do you trust this person? What kind of reactions do you get from them? Does it feel like they're judging you? Are they asking you the probing questions or are they quick to offer advice? Do they tell you what you SHOULD do?
Someone who falls under this category would likely have a personal investment in whether or not you succeed. You want someone to be emotionally invested in you, but their ego is not what you want to be “feeding” with your experience. Whether it’s your mom, a therapist, a friend, a coach, etc., you want to talk to someone who either TRULY loves you (meaning they want what’s best for you, regardless of how it affects them) or someone who is truly unbiased (like a coach or therapist).
My personal experience: I used to say I had trust issues. Not that I thought my significant other would cheat on me, but I didn't trust people's intentions. I thought the only reason people were there for me is because they they wanted something from me or they got paid for it.
Too many times, I believed that people had the best of intentions, but they would "betray" me as soon as a better opportunity came alone. Betray, to me, is doing something unexpected and not in a good way. (I expected them to "do the right thing", but, when given the opportunity, they did the same as they've always done, which is what landed them in a place of needing help in the first place.)
I thought someone wanted to be helpful but, in the end, they fed their own ego or reaped whatever benefit(s) they stand to gain. Once they gained anything, I felt like they had taken something away from me. It was as if there was only so much success to go around.
A mother stands to "feed her ego" by taking credit when her child turns out the way she'd hoped. She wants what's best for her child, but if she's judging herself as a failure because her child is behind in what's called "the norm"........This all applies to what anyone else thinks. I'm paying attention to what the universe says to me, not the advice that individual people give to me. Individual people may serve as messengers of the Universe at times, but there is no one person that will serve as your personal healing person. Here we are learning how to hear when the Universe speaks.
As a result: I don't tell people what they SHOULD do. I do what I do to share what I've learned, not to feed my ego.
I share my stories, experiences and maybe perspectives with them. What they do with the information I provide is completely up to them.
From my experience, I can usually tell you what reactions to expect in each circumstance, depending on how you choose to proceed. We walk along that journey, maybe create a visual down each optional path. Often, we'll do a role play to take it all the way through.
I've had clients tell me that it's kind of creepy when I predict what someone will do, when I don't even know the person they're talking to/about.
A few things to keep in mind:
Source Energy offers hints, inklings, nudges in the right direction......in the form of intuition, gut feelings, instincts, even cravings. The more often you pay attention to your Source Energy, the stronger and louder it'll become. You'll start to notice more your vibration, your connection. Source Energy will never warn you of what could happen or want you to act from a place of fear. (Best example of this is chasing dollars for fear of running out of money.)
Source Energy only speaks in positive. The word :NO" does not exist in the language of the Vortex.
What you speak about is where your focus lies. Whether you're focusing on the abundance of or the lack of something.
If you focus on the lack of something, the Universe sees where your focus is and offers more of whatever you currently have. If it's a lack of something, you will remain in the vibration of lack of whatever it is. Whatever you focus on grows. (i.e. only the grass you water will grow)
If you focus on what you have of something you love (show gratitude/appreciation), no matter how much or how little you have, focus on what you have.....and more will appear. Whether it's money, love, health, adventure, etc.
If you focus on the what's missing from your life, you speak about lack, you will continue to reap this fate. (i.e. when the universe hears you focusing on being lonely, poor, a failure, undeserving, etc., you will continue to reap the results of what you focus on. Remember the universe doesn't understand negative. This is the Law of Attraction (attracting, not deflection). It only works in giving you more of what you focus on.)
I could talk forever on this stuff. Comment on what you'd like to learn more about. Are there things you'd like to understand better? Do you wonder if this is for real or just another fad or hoax? Leave your comments and share with whomever you think might resonate. Sign up to be notified when a new blog post comes up.
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